the feelings of first love

LOVE-a word which cannot be expressed by words, it can only be felt with the hearts. Many of us have experienced this feeling, this feeling is just out of the world. When you are in love you feel like you have some importance attached to yourself and you are not at all worthless. Here I am not talking about the love of a girl and a boy,here love also means the love which we get from our family and friends. But today Love has been defined in an all together different context.
                          The feelings of LOVE is first experienced by us when we come into this earth through our mother's womb. This LOVE is experienced by us when we are in our mother's womb itself an finally when we come into this world we eventually get the love of our parents. This first feeling of LOVE is just unexplainable and cannot be defined. It has the power to fight any problems of our life and sometimes can even save our lives. This love has so much power and strength.
                             When we start going to school, we experience love in a totally different form. Love given by our teacher's and friends are way to different from the love that we get from our parents. Teachers are like second mother and father to us and that is the way that all are taught in order to give them respect. When we enter the school premises with all kinds of fears in our hearts and with wet eyes, the teachers are then come into picture of giving us love and make us feel comfortable and free.We also have certain expectations from the people who belong to our age group. We want them to accept us as we are and not as they are and once we get adjusted with them they become our moral supports known as FRIENDS. Friends give us the love that we always want throughout our life apart from the love given by our parents. They are like pillars when you are away from your parents and support you and save you from the external dangers of the world. Friends and parents are like life support system without which an individual cannot live.
                               After coming to a much higher platform of life,THE COLLEGE, the meaning of love changes. During this time period very few people get their soul mates and fall in TRUE LOVE but for others love is associated with physical intimacy or more appropriately called SEX. The feeling shown by college students for their better halves are just a road to maximum satisfaction and pleasure. College life is a very crucial and delicate stage for the students and they get involved in all kinds of things like boozing and all and the meaning of love also changes for them. Love loses its purity at this stage of life for many but for few it always remains the pure truth in them. These students totally believe in it and they tend to be happy with their lovers in college and in future as their husband/wife. But the numbers of these students are very few and less.
                                 When a girl or a boy gets married he/she enters the new phase of their lives and with a whole new beginnings. They are nervous and sometimes naive in these matters. The value of love increases when a couple is married. The love which one experiences here is totally new and wonderful. The bond of love increases as they spend more time with each other and this love is shown when they have a baby. The incoming of baby brings in the birth of new love and new attractions.
                                      So we see how we explore new feelings of love at every point of life. Love is an integral part of our life we should'nt be making fun of it or disrespecting it. We should enjoy it as it comes our way.







 With Loads Of LOVE,
Smita Ranjan